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Narcissism & Toxic Family

Articles drawn from building companies, not theory.

Narcissism vs. NPD: Traits, Diagnosis, and BoundariesLearn how narcissistic traits differ from NPD, why diagnosis requires a clinician, and how to respond to harmful behavior without labeling someone.
Growing Up With a Narcissistic ParentA child of a narcissist learns to read a room before they can read words; naming that survival skill is the first step to laying it down.
Scapegoat and Golden Child RolesBoth roles are wounds, not ranks; the golden child often pays later for the approval the scapegoat was denied early.
Adult Children of Abusive ParentsChildhood writes a ledger the child could not read; understanding the research turns self-blame into self-understanding.
The ACE Study: Childhood and Adult HealthAn ACE score is a weather report, not a sentence; it explains risk without deciding the outcome.
Attachment Styles and HealingAttachment style is a first language, not a life sentence; earned security is real and learnable in adulthood.
Setting Boundaries With Toxic FamilyA boundary is something you keep, not a rule you impose; that reframe ends the argument you can never win.
Going No-Contact With FamilyNo-contact is a medical-grade intervention, not a tantrum, and low-contact is an underused middle path.
Breaking Generational CyclesYou cannot pass on what you have felt all the way through; feeling it fully is how the cycle ends with you.
Recognizing Gaslighting and ManipulationGaslighting works by making you outsource reality; keeping a private record restores the witness it tries to erase.
Healing From Narcissistic AbuseRecovery is less about understanding them and more about rebuilding the self-trust their world was built to dissolve.

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